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| SWAT One:
Also, I would try to determine some how how long this would last. |
| hillkill:
--- Quote from: Headcrab Zombie on October 31, 2017, 12:16:44 PM ---I'd say it's not really polyamory if they're not looking for romantic attachment out of the third. I don't know if I would even call it an open relationship, since they're only going with this singular third person. --- End quote --- you can very easily fall in love with people you have love with. |
| Headcrab Zombie:
--- Quote from: beachbum111111 on October 31, 2017, 12:24:39 PM ---In all seriousness it all depends. Is your gf just a passing thot you use for fun or is this someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? If it's the latter then definitely not. --- End quote --- You can't make blanket statements like that, it depends on the individual. As I've said, I have many friends who have long lasting and stable relationships with other people involved. --- Quote from: hillkill on October 31, 2017, 01:10:33 PM ---you can very easily fall in love with people you have love with. --- End quote --- Did you read my entire post? I specifically said to avoid it if he's worried about that. But it sounds like he's more worried about the other girl developing feelings. I'd just make sure she knows it's nothing romantic, and tell his gf to back off if it looks like the other girl is developing feelings |
| SWAT One:
--- Quote from: Headcrab Zombie on October 31, 2017, 01:20:42 PM ---You can't make blanket statements like that, it depends on the individual. --- End quote --- Yes, seeing that the common theme, as well as what seems Beachbum's intention is—cover your ass/play it safe—then it it 100% fair play. |
| Bisjac:
remember kitton? lol i totally gave her the go ahead to hook up with a girl if she wanted. it only took a week. she excitedly hooked up with this chick friend she had. she couldnt wait to tell me about it next morning. cool. then that half story was followed up by her friends husband coming home half way through. ok. then her friend and her husband forgeted while kitton decided to take a walk around the block. she returned when they wrapped up. uh huh.... lol thats not even a good lie. XD |
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