Some guy I know molested my gf, excuse me what the forget

[Calem_the_gamer123]

im speechless

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[Punished Rally]

- Tells her about how he wants to sleep with her
- Tells her how much of an starfish I am

Now some day my s/o was hanging out at his place, which im fine with and she told me. The only reason she was there was because he has a metric forget ton of cats and she loves cats

dude...

[YouKnowWhoAgain]

I high-key want to send him a text/message about it and that he should stay the forget away from her but I dont want to be that kind of starfish.

Do it do it do it do it

[MoltenKitten]

Don't be a pusillanimous individual and loving deck the stuff

[16-Bit]

hit up the gym and take steroids mass supplements

[DurkaDude]

How do you know the guy to begin with? School? Work?

[espio100]

My best friend convinced him he should go to therapy.
He also deleted his facebook for some reason.
My s/o wants to drop him off to therapy along with my best friend otherwise he wont go but I really dont want her to see him anymore ever again

I know it sounds edgy but I wish he'd just drop dead.

[espio100]

How do you know the guy to begin with? School? Work?

He was in my school and he had a crush on my best friend. My best friend was obviously extremely uncomfortable with that and often complained to me about it.

[Punished Rally]

The bottom line is that he's not going to kill himself. Somebody is going to respond to this and tell me that the threat should be taken seriously, and I would agree with that if he had dated her in the past and had genuinely loved and cared about her. You do not manipulate or loveually assault(?) people you genuinely care about, and people don't kill themselves over girls they don't genuinely care about.

Also: You don't have to "control" your girlfriend to have very reasonable boundaries in your relationship lol. I don't think "don't hang out with manipulative men who actively denigrate your relationship and are openly loveually interested in you" is an irrational standard for a partner in a relationship. Fundamental boundaries like that would've prevented this situation in the first place.

Like just go to PetSmart if you want to hang out with cats bro

[Deus Ex]

My s/o wants to drop him off to therapy along with my best friend otherwise he wont go but I really dont want her to see him anymore ever again

Tbh your gf's kind of a bitch imho

If my gf got molested by some forgeter after this guy emotionally manipulated her and spent alot of time saying he wanted to sleep w/ her and all kinds of gross stuff WHILE stuff talking me and after ALL OF THAT she still wants to be there for him?

"Ah forget you both, you're both weirdos, I'm moving on" would be my internal thought process. Maybe I'm a cunt for it but that's not an emotional situation I'm gonna put myself through just cause my s/o wants to be considerate of some loving stuffstain's feelings.

Oh, and for future reference, it's not controlling to tell her she needs to tell that guy to forget off. Stand your ground. Don't you ever let anyone make you feel stuffty for having boundaries. You can't let people do stuff that makes you uncomfortable just because you don't wanna be labeled controlling. It's not controlling to set some limits.

[SCP - 096]

you should just let him die lmao

[Conan]

its controlling if you're setting the limits for her, but not if you just express your position and what you think is best to do, and asking/convincing her to see the same. eg no threat of retribution or long term anger if she doesnt agree.

[Deus Ex]

its controlling if you're setting the limits for her, but not if you just express your position and what you think is best to do, and asking/convincing her to see the same. eg no threat of retribution or long term anger if she doesnt agree.

don't listen to this simp ass brother

If something makes you uncomfortable she either stops doing it or you leave her. You have every right to be annoyed and/or angry as long as it's not something silly. THIS is something you set a limit on. This is a situation beyond compromise. This dude disrespected her, you, your relationship, and is emotionally manipulative. She needs to drop him, even without you in the picture. And if she continues to be friends with this guy, after everything that happens, then she's disrespecting herself, and you, and your relationship, and you have every right to be mad at her and leave if you so desire. forget outta here with that "its controlling" stuff. You aren't controlling her. You're letting her know you won't stand for that stuff. If she keeps it up, its on her.

[Gytyyhgfffff]

word of advice: don't take any relationship tips from the genius behind https://forum.blockland.us/index.php?topic=321701.0

might be a good idea to take this to /r/askwomen or some other place where people have had to deal with this situation before

[Deus Ex]

word of advice: don't take any relationship tips from the genius behind https://forum.blockland.us/index.php?topic=321701.0

might be a good idea to take this to /r/askwomen or some other place where people have had to deal with this situation before

Honestly forget off

You guys are telling this guy to enable her while she enables this other guy that put his hands on her after being insanely disrespectful towards her, OP and the relationship. Talking about loving her, having her has his wallpaper, etc etc, and she still thought it was a good idea to be alone w/ him? loving ridiculous. Just because I stepped in stuff once you're gonna tell me I don't know how it smells? smfh