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An important retrospect on the incident for those of you digging it up
Zotron:
--- Quote from: Trogtor on April 15, 2019, 04:12:40 PM ---who
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--- Quote from: Kyuande on April 10, 2019, 02:03:12 AM ---I don't know who you are, but I will give you a chance.
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--- Quote from: Jackhammer on April 10, 2019, 07:58:18 PM ---sometimes people deal with things better by just saying sorry to everyone or something of the sort.
yeah i dont get why everyone's going loving ham on this dude for some dumb mistakes he made when his hormones were raging lol. i think that all of us as teenagers did some pretty weird stuff at some point.
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--- Quote from: Mr. Bones on April 10, 2019, 08:47:07 PM ---15 year olds can't be child enthusiasts lol
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--- Quote from: Gautier00 on April 10, 2019, 10:54:32 PM ---kids praying on kids doesn't really sound like child enthusiasm
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--- Quote from: PhantOS on April 12, 2019, 05:32:11 PM ---It's safe to say a hard 30% of all teens look up some form of child research out of curiosity. Or don't out of fear that the FBI will raid their house
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PhantOS:
--- Quote from: Zotron on April 15, 2019, 04:06:09 PM ---because people are defending a loving child enthusiast
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whats wrong with defending child enthusiasts? you act like they're some foreign entity that are impervious to therapy
PhantOS:
it may blow your mind but demonizing and ostracizing child enthusiasts has been directly linked to child enthusiasts being too afraid to seek therapy for their mental illness and as a result directly linked to more love crimes against minors
PhantOS:
here's a good read for the brainless users here
--- Quote ---" I’m a 20-year-old man who has been trying to deal with an attraction to young girls since I was 13. Women just don't interest me. I wish with all my soul that I could have a brain that's wired normally. I know that I can never act on what I feel, but I need to speak to a therapist because I don't think I can get through this on my own. But if I talk to a therapist he could report me, because I have to talk about my attraction to young girls. I don’t know whether he would or not and don't even know how to go about getting more information. Even the friendships I have are in danger of falling apart because I can't just keep saying 'I'm fine' and I can't talk to anyone about my problem. I think about Self Delete a lot. "
Anonymous pleas like this show up constantly on the web. This man is a heartbreakingly anguished example of what we call a Virtuous child enthusiast, virtuous because he is not going to do anything with a real child. We too are Virtuous child enthusiasts, and there are a great many of us, though few people know of our existence. To admit our condition is to invite suspicion, hatred, and social ostracism. Virtuous doesn't mean we think we're better than the average person, just that we're not worse.
We do not choose to be attracted to children, and we cannot make that attraction go away. But we can resist the temptation to abuse children loveually, and many of us present no danger to children whatsoever. Yet we are despised for having a loveual attraction that we did not choose, cannot change, and successfully resist.
This hatred has its costs, both to children and to non-offending child enthusiasts themselves. Many child enthusiasts don’t seek professional help because of the shame involved in admitting to therapists that they are loveually attracted to children. Think how many cases of abuse would be avoided if child enthusiasts who were dedicated to resisting their attractions were treated with sympathy and respect, and were therefore more willing to seek professional help in order to remain law-abiding. And think of the cost to non-offending child enthusiasts themselves. Many are depressed, and even suicidal, because of loveual thoughts that they didn’t choose but are able to successfully resist.
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all accredited therapists are trained usually for a semester on how to treat child enthusiasts and mitigate their child enthusiasm so that they may be functioning members of society. if you, as a therapist with a doctorate, were to refuse to 'defend child enthusiasts' like most of the people here in this thread are, you'd definitely lose your license
Jackhammer:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on April 15, 2019, 04:58:02 PM ---whats wrong with defending child enthusiasts?
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probably should word this phrase better lol
take note:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on April 15, 2019, 04:58:02 PM ---whats wrong with implying that child enthusiasts can get therapy?
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