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| Mardalf:
Just no matter what around friends and family just the majority of the time? |
| Conan:
sounds like you need closer friends i used to feel that way before i made my first real friend, and since then ive branched out to more people. i find that loneliness comes from being unable to share the emotional load of difficult times with others, so my definition of friends is someone id be willing to share serious personal problems with and be able to expect them to actually care and offer whatever support they reasonably can |
| Mardalf:
oh I have a few very close friends I could talk to about anything and in the past have talked to about kind of out there stuff and problems and they listen and care. but they can't help and nobody can understand you like you can if you even can understand yourself and so I feel alone because the only person that can help you is you, so it's just me and me in the world It's not my friends fault it's mine, they're great friends and would love to help me, I am the only one solely responsible for myself. |
| Black and White:
yea I feel like like I have to "prove" I'm not really ok half the time because it feels like people don't believe me, of course that's probably all in my head I know lol but whatever. |
| soldier101@:
--- Quote from: Mardalf on December 06, 2021, 04:14:11 AM ---but they can't help and nobody can understand you like you can if you even can understand yourself and so I feel alone because the only person that can help you is you, so it's just me and me in the world --- End quote --- Have you felt like this all your life Mardalf? If not, did someone die recently? If not that, did you just have a existential crCIA? Ego death? If none of the above good luck. I think everyone can relate to feeling alone. Even on a individual basis. But feeling alone the majority of the time sounds very sad. I understand feeling against all the odds for a extended period of time but not forever, and not alone. You have a dog? Really any animal or being to care for that can express affection helps. Are you religious? I understand many find it comforting for a omnipotent being to watch over them and guide them in their lives. Good luck mardalf in your quest for meaning, or in the very least a connection you feel right with. If there was something more I could say to benefit you more I would. I hope you find what you are wanting for. |
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