I suggest banning Toasteh from your servers.tl;dr -- He refuses to listen to directions and is a general friend.
Here's what happened:
I logged onto Brickybob's server and found Toasteh and Redilub (sp?) doing whatever. After awhile I noticed Toasteh in my basement, and said "Does "No Trespassing" mean anything to anyone" (there is a "No Trespassing" sign outside my house) and Toasteh said no. I took this as a joke, but I was cautious as my main chest was down there and he had noticed part of my locking mechanism. I told him that he should leave, and I threw in a "(Or I will kill you)" for good measure. To scare him, you know? I had full Iron armor and a Diamond sword and he had stone tools, so it would be no contest. He left and I went back to what I was doing. It was only about a minute or two before he waltzed right back into my house like he owned the place. I asked what part of "I will kill you" he didn't understand, and he left before returning once again, after which I gave him a smack with my sword. I believe he was trying to figure out my chest locking mechanism, as I kept finding him in my basement. I admit I shouldn't have mentioned that the griefer who apparently visited earlier hadn't found my main chest to people I didn't trust, but still. After leaving he said that he was going to kill me, and not taking any chance that he had some more advanced equipment at home, saw him picking at freckleskitty's garden and sprinted out my door with sword blazing.
He died quickly. I sifted through his inventory and took a few Enderpearls (how he got those I don't know, he was definitely not equipped to kill Endermen...or was he?) and some other things here and there as spoils. He returned and I watched him gather what remained (which was nearly everything) and walk away. Not long afterwards he stated that some things were missing and he demanded them back. I ignored him. He must have known that my chest was in my basement and went there to look for it. I killed him again. He came back, and perhaps it was a mistake, but I killed him as soon as he reached the top of the basement steps. I should have let him reclaim his items at that point, but at the same time I was very unsettled that he was hellbent on finding my chest, and I didn't want to give him any advantage. I tried to rectify this mistake by telling him to take his stuff and leave. He came into the basement and tried to punch me. I killed him again. He came back again. And I killed him again. Over and over and over. I probably killed him about 10 times, each time he drilled a new hole into the wall of my house and tried to punch a man to death in full Iron armor. My biggest mistake was building within walking distance of spawn, I know that now.
Now here's the good part; I'm not quite sure how it happened -- maybe he was holding out on me, maybe he had an accomplice to supply him a sword, maybe he was cheating, or maybe I just wasn't keeping an eye on my hunger and health bars -- but he came down into that basement and somehow managed to wreck my stuff good. I rushed to my home just as the door closed, with Toasteh nowhere in sight. In the basement I found coal, a clock, some saplings, and other general garbage. "I told you I'd kill you", he scoffed. My reply was this:
"Unlike you I have plenty of supplies to go around
I will find you
and when I do
I will kill you"
I made myself some Iron armor, a Diamond sword, and some essentials before setting out to find that forget. I didn't venture far, and was looping around when I noticed a nameplate in my basement. I flew down the steps and saw the wall in front of my chest busted open, and I rushed in to find Toasteh trying to break out through the circuitry room. I killed that son of a bitch and picked up my stolen diamonds, gold and who knows what else. I took a deep breath and disconnected.
I'm never going to that server again, and whoever that bastard Toasteh is...
I'm taking my diamonds to the grave, forgeter.