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You should play on clan servers.People on there are less likely to piss you off.I go on the occasional clan server.They have a good setup. No bull stuff mods.
[TDR] Is one I found to be quite good. The thing is that they usually are 32 man servers. The game is not build gameplay wise nor physically able to support anything past 24-32. Ideally, I go to 24 or 18 man servers. 32 man servers always end up to be spamfest lagstuff games that end winning for whoever has a better soldier/Demo:Demo/Engi ratio.
The only time that i like to go on 32 player servers, is when it's a "fun" server. Like, surfing or something.
People who make a video and then type what they need to say in Notepad or Word instead of using Windows Movie Maker or something.
People who could not take a competitive game seriously like the other people in the server.