Oh that's the reason.
Figured it out, I used a packet inspector to figure out where the data is getting sent to, and I got an IP
167.206.8.140
Hicksville, New York
Of course, Optimum's New York hub.
I really thought they were in New York City.
Whatever, the real distance is 9 miles.
Bottom line:
Ask me if you want to find out the exact location of your server.