To add: I see what you were getting at, your cause was noble, but your methods were not. I agree that people should not have been making fun of JD's dad's death, HOWEVER wishing death upon people's families is not a good method of achieving this. My mother died, so when you pulled that stuff I immediately lost all respect for you. I was going to sit this one out but then I saw that post and it changed my mind completely.
I may joke about masochism, but in there I was deadly serious.
People who are so blunt and inconsiderate need to experience first hand what they mock.
It is the hardest thing, you relate to that, and people are joking about it. My ideals do not permit that. I consider what I said the nastiest thing that you could wish on a man. And I stick by that, and it is simply a difference of opinion. I think that an individual who laughs at the pain of another doesn't know precisely what that person is feeling.
If it had happened to Bisjac, and he was simply a jaded individual, then perhaps I would not have gone so far and left him to live, but JD is a friend of mine, and Bisjac has not experienced what he mocks. He doesn't have the understanding to pass judgement. My prime want, at that time, was for him to gain an understanding.
