Let me add onto this.
There's this girl Abbie. She likes me right now, I'm planning on going out with her, maybe go hang out at the mall with her and her little girly friends today. But that isnt the point here.
A while ago, maybe 2nd quarter, she's single. Her friend Mattie comes and tells me Abbie likes me alot. So I'm like "Sweet!" and ask her out. She waits a month just to tell me "No". wat. Then a week later Mattie says it again, and tells me Abbie just dumped her boyfriend, Kyle, for me. I ask her out again. She says no. Then the next day she comes to me and says "I'm so sorry, I meant to say yes." I'm happy as hell the rest of that day. We're together for the next three days. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. There couldnt of been real dating within those days hence the fact it was all weekdays. She doesnt talk to me at all the days, then she dumps me. She doesn't dump me. Mattie does it for her.
Bullstuff with girls.
Oh well. She likes me alot right now and told me she'd be together with me for as long as possible.
Reminds me of my entire middle school life. Girls approaching me, saying they or a friend wants to date me, go for days without contact and when I see them next tell me that it's not working out. In some cases they'd ask that no one knew about the relationship out of fear of ridicule or some other bs. Kids are stupid when it comes to relationships and it's usually more about posturing and popularity rather than actual emotions and feelings.
I have a wonderful relationship right now and we do what we can to spend as much time with each other as possible. It's a good feeling to be missed and I'm also very anxious and happy to be a father come July. Things will work out for you all, no fears. The Bullstuff will end as they grow up and mature.