Truly Christian in this context means people who agree with you, right? No the WBC or anything?
The WBC is ignoring a fairly key verse in scripture.
Ephesians 6:12
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
We are not supposed to hate people, but we are to abhor actions, worldviews and mindsets that are against Scripture. We are to love Homoloveual people as we love ourselves, but we can not sit back and allow homoloveuality to permeate our culture.