The last party I went to I got pretty much forced into by my brother and he was all "Not to many people are gonna be drinking, just gonna be listenin to good music and talking". We get there and people are getting smashed off their asses and they had dubstep music blasting throughout the house. So I sit down and talk to a couple people I recognize, just try to be involved but not drink and this one dude kept yelling at me saying I was killing his and everyone elses buzz because I wasn't getting wasted with him. I just told him actually you're the only one here getting upset about it and i'm sorry if that bothers you.
By the end of the party everyone, including my brother who promised not to get drunk, was wasted and incapable to drive (yet still trying to.) Was pretty boring honestly, dunno what was so great about that party specifically.