Tell us what you believe is bad about yourself. Tell us what you think your flaws are. Then, go ahead and tell us what you like about yourself, your good attributes, etc.
flaws:
- i cant take my own advice, even when i know im right
- i cant say no for the most part
- i feel horribly guilty about the littlest thing i do wrong, because i expect everyone to not forgive me for my mistakes, no matter how big or small
- super lazy and procrastinating
- incredibly paranoid
- addictions (which probably isnt a big deal but is still kind of a drag at times because i dont want to fix it even though i know i should)
- i enjoy the little things
- i dont adapt well to change
- still sometimes find myself in awkward social situations that i dont rly know how to handle
- its hard pointing out my pros because i dont like to boast about myself
pros:
- a lot of people love me and think im cool/funny person and enjoy my company
- i have a very large and diverse group of friends
- i can laugh at myself
- always in a positive mood, hardly ever upset (and if i am i try not to be around anyone so im not a buzz kill)
- i enjoy the little things
- try to be nice to everyone, even if i dont like them or they dont like me
- ive managed to keep myself in decent shape, physically/mentally/emotionally
- gotten to be more social irl than online
- know what my goals in life are, and i am on a pretty decent pathway to accomplishing them
- i have a unique personality that separates me from everyone else
- i dont care about my reputation on here or irl. i just be me and am happy being me
- pretty confident
EDIT: also i hope its ok for me to include this piece of advice that really helped me become a social butterfly, because i feel like it could be beneficial to some of yall, and since were opening up and all:
what worked for me making friends was this:
be yourself, dont care what others think of you, and just try to be as confident as possible
it probably sounds hard doing that since i imagine a lot of you are probably rly shy, or rly shut in and theres nothing wrong with that, but sometimes to get the things you want you have to get out of your comfort zone, and it usually pays off
before high school, i never did anything. i never went out, i never tried to talk to ppl, i just let things come to me without putting in any effort. when i left 8th grade i learned that thats not gonna cut it forever, so all summer i tried getting used to those three things, and within my first week of high school i was friends with like, every upper classmen at my school. now i was the one being asked to go out to places, i was the one ppl called to hang out with... although i still wasn't doing all that much. that didnt kick in till 10th grade which was probably my most intense year ;)
i at least had a reliable clique of friends that i could turn to and thats something i think everyone needs
sometimes u just gotta take a risk :)
