Author Topic: relationships  (Read 13515 times)

there are plenty of things you could do to meet people
what you really mean is that you don't want to meet people
This (or maybe you just aren't looking hard enough for activities to do). I'm homeschooled and I have a nice group of friends. Being homeschooled usually means you have more time to do extracurricular and/or fun activities than non-homeschoolers (this is not a set in stone rule, though).

If I were a furry I wouldn't. I've never told a soul IRL about any of my oddities.
omg stocking confurmed for furry


Well, now I'm really convinced that you're not aloveual.
If you are, you won't masturbate. That's what aloveual means, no love, AT ALL. (I just wanted to say after you read my below message, what drove you to the conclusion that I didn't know this? I think I would do a little research on the matter before I started to identify myself as something. I don't see myself in a loveual situation, but I still want to be with someone romantically. Is that really impossible?)

I guess right now, you aren't interested in girls or guys, but just wait around for a while and you will. (I know my writing style is boring and that you are skimming what I write, but I already said that I had interest in one person. It just wasn't loveual)Don't convince yourself that you're an aloveual when you aren't. Aloveuals do not masturbate.

That's actually not true. You can climax (and therefore masturbate) without any loveual attraction. My proof? That's my own existence; my great grandfather was apparently gay. If my great grandfather gave birth to my grandmother, who then gave birth to my father, he clearly had love unwillingly. If you can reproduce without loveual attraction, it must be possible to masturbate without loveual attraction, too. But I'm not trying to say love is procrastination, or anything remotely close. I was trying to prove that I have been in the point in puberty when I should be having loveual feelings for someone, and yet I've only had romantic feelings for one person. Everyone seems to be treating me as if I've never gone through puberty, which is a lie. I wouldn't have even tried to force myself to masturbate 3 years ago if it weren't for people insisting that I'm wrong about my own loveual feelings. Plus, pretty much every aloveuality awareness website I have seen through my cursory google search to prove this statement says that aloveuals do masturbate, but usually not for loveual reasons. I found no concrete, scientific evidence on the matter, mostly because I'm satisfied with anecdotes from aloveuals to prove my point. I guess some people like the feeling of it without having loveual attraction, which makes sense to me. I just disliked the experience and assume I will feel the same way about love. I just have a hard time explaining my loveuality to people, because I'm not 100% aloveual, but I still identify as aloveual rather than gay because it just doesn't feel right to me.

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jesus there are some freaks here how do i always forget this. you arent aloveual, stop trying to do this whole whatever lol

I don't even see how a person can truly be a-loveual