I'll say one thing, though- unwritten rules are not rules. If it is legitamatelly hard to put "don't troll" or "don't victim blame" or something in the rules, that hardly seems fair to permaban someone for it with no warning. that's my final take on the matter.
there are stuffloads of unwritten rules. but they dont always apply. so i dunno
Well it is Badspot's forum, his rules, so I guess if you don't like him or agree with the way he does things then don't stay.
There shouldn't be rules in place to deter that kind of behaviour, you should know better.