I just want to say, before badspot swiftly dropped the hammer on me, I shouldn't have said "level headed leaders don't get DDoS'd". That was wrong, and I do think I was deserved of the backlash. I still don't agree with eric's methods, and I feel like there's some serious double standards around a lot of the rules, but I made mistakes and 5 years of anti-block has now been wiped away.
I'll say one thing, though- unwritten rules are not rules. If it is legitamatelly hard to put "don't troll" or "don't victim blame" or something in the rules, that hardly seems fair to permaban someone for it with no warning. that's my final take on the matter.