Yeah, this is a successfully derailed thread. More relevant topic is in Drama and I have a suspicion this isn't get back on topic soon.
BTW I don't talk to my real friends about BLF--that'd be weird. But I know 2 forumers who attend the same school as me and we know eachother IRL. The invasive aspect was that when you reverse-image-search the resume photo it literally directly takes me to Beachbum's posts, rather than the original post in IRL pics. I'm not even sure if he can play dumb on that one since I literally posted as "I tried to make a portrait look proffesional for academics".