Psychologically, people will tell the story to how they
saw it happen.
It's not a fact, it's just been experimented with.
I used to be in a Social Psych class. (Thus I know all!, no.)
The OP, our good friend Regulith, could be leaving out some things that got his friend aggravated.
I could be wrong.
And duckmiester, our other good friend. Thinks I'm trolling.
I'm not trying to be a threadstuffter/troll.
I did my absolute best to keep out any biased sections of this story.
Alright then :p