I find everything you've said to be hard to believe since you seem to have only taken snippets of text and pasted them into the topic. I'm lead to believe that you're spinning the whole situation out of context in order to present the ordeal in a manner you find complimentary, by only using quotes that support your side of the argument. Next time give us the complete chat log.
And that link you posted to your supposed family topic both proves nothing and has very poor diction.