I only ever get the opposite of this. Probably because I only really host Roleplay servers, but whatever.
Usually I get people asking to build in the middle of Roleplays. Some times it's ok, when I've got a thing going on where some small buildings aren't any harm and actually add to it.
Certain Roleplays that partially work like a Town build, or even a Town/Base build sort of thing are ok for people to come and build in, so long as they're aware that there are roleplays going on and it's likely they'll end up included in it.
It's the times when you're in a strictly encased area, that people asking to build is annoying.
When I'm hosting my Moonbase Roleplay, people are in a Moonbase. It's got a set building. It's got places for people to Roleplay in as certain things. So, people shouldn't feel the need to have to ask to go outside and start building me a Bar. :/
Especially when the server is a bit short on players, and an extra roleplayer means a whole world of difference. It's much easier to get something going with more than two people. Gives you much more room for improvisation, so it's annoying when one of the only other people on the server insists on building something pointless and spammy.
Ever since i hosted a deathrun, tons of peeps come on my server asking if its a deathrun :/
Is it a deathrun?