Author Topic: Love situation advice  (Read 1530 times)

Hey guys, i would like to ask your advice, even though i guess i will get a lot of useless posts.

Okay, so this is my situation.
I like a girl on my work, and i think and certainly hope she likes me too.
I wrote two anonymous letters to two other girls previously and a great search for the writer started at both.

She lives not so far from me, works at the same supermarket, however she stands all day (well evening as she mostly works in evenings) at the service counter and is not so attractive when i ask other guys about her.
After all, i really like her.

Please give commentary at the following actions i could take:
- Write another anonymous letter, this time to her (and stick it on the whiteboard in the canteen of my work).
- Wait for a suitable moment and ask her out. (Never did this before, because i have no good idea what to do)
- Do nothing, as i am too scared to 'fail' again.
- Write here a letter and give it to her.
- Just wait and just keep up the contact with her.

Inb4:
Stick it in her pooper, Hugums approves, advice dog or whatever kind of forum joke.
I would like to hear what you guys have to say about this.

You misspelled "her" it's spelled here somewhere there.
Proves I actually read it, so I'm contributing herp derp.

- Write another anonymous letter, this time to her (and stick it on the whiteboard in the canteen of my work). This is a bad idea
- Wait for a suitable moment and ask her out. (Never did this before, because i have no good idea what to do) This is a bad idea, read Bisjac's post
- Do nothing, as i am too scared to 'fail' again. You'll never know what could have been unless you actually try asking her
- Write here a letter and give it to her. Talking to her in person might be a better idea, just try not to become a nervous wreck
- Just wait and just keep up the contact with her. This is probably the best idea you've had.

/firstusefulpost

Stick it in her pooper, Hugums approves, advice dog or whatever kind of forum joke.

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Stick it in her pooper, Hugums approves, advice dog or whatever kind of forum joke.

sorry, couldn't resist, but what i have to say, you shouldn't take in, :U

no love notes, no asking on dates.
its a little different when its a fellow employee. failing there will make your job extremely awkward.


what you need to do is befriend this chick well. be on good friend terms before you ask her to casually hang out. (NOT ON A DATE)

Inb4hugumsapprovesbytellingyo utostickitinherpooperwithadvi cedogsayingit.

Just hang around with her for a bit, then ask to see her after school/work, and rape her see how it goes from there.

Don't write her a letter as your writing kinda sucks. Also, follow Bisjac's advice as that was what I was going to write.

Proog, you are somewhat late.

Thanks all, i guessed so that the first action was bad. But i decided to leave it in anyhow.
I guess, Bisjac gave the best advice.

However, she doesn't work much when i work, i mostly meet her on my way out or sometimes, rare times, i meet her in my breaks.
I mostly work at day, she in the evening.

I fell in love with her after i talked with her in one of my breaks.
We talked about cats, as we both have them and both have funny cats. :3

I then talked to her when i met her on my way out (at the service counter) and i said something with a reference to our conversation before about our cats.
She laughed and responded very open.
When i see her, i always talk to her and she seems to be happy to see me.

A short time ago, i went downstairs from the canteen and opened the door to the store (where the service counter is situated practically) and she immediatly spoke to me, even before i could say something to her.
She spoke with such a tone, which looked a bit like flirty.

So yeah, pretty much my story behind this all.

Don't write her a letter as your writing kinda sucks. Also, follow Bisjac's advice as that was what I was going to write.
My dutch seems to be good enough to write good letters.
I am not the only one who thinks that, even my teacher said i was quite good at writing poetry.

English instead is a bit harder for me to write poetry (or just normal text) with.
« Last Edit: April 28, 2010, 05:20:47 PM by lordician »

If I wasn't so lazy, I'd totally make a picture of advice dog advising you to stick it in her pooper, with hugums approves on the corner.

If I wasn't so lazy, I'd totally make a picture of advice dog advising you to stick it in her pooper, with hugums approves on the corner.
Oh you.


- Just wait and just keep up the contact with her.
This is the best idea, as its worked for me on several occasions.