I notice a lot of people coming to servers and telling people what add ons they need to get. I can understand constructive criticism, but I can also understand when that turns into just flat out bossiness.
Constructive Criticism Example - Going to a server with "Good Builders Needed" in the title, and suggesting they get a certain brick to allow the builders to build more.
Bossiness - "NEEDS MOAR desu WEAPONS"
And, since this is a thread I made, I'm sure you can tell that I'm going to be focusing on the second type.
It doesn't seem to bother me too much when I see it happening to someone else, but naturally, it bugs the hell out of me when I'm hosting the server. It's MY server, with MY add ons. Why should I conform to your standards so you can build something completely unrelated to the server!? My server is doing just FINE without the Mininuke, the Minigun, Unlimited Mining, RP Mods, and all those other frequently used add ons.
So. Do you ever tell someone they need to get an add on? Do you see justification for doing this? Have you done it yourself? (I for one, have. I remember a day that I went through nearly the whole server list, just asking "DO YOU HAVE THIS MUSIC?", and leaving when they would say no.)