Jacky, you should try to keep your temper down a little, some guy destroyed my house once (took a while to build..) and thought it was funny, sure at first I was angry at him, but I got over it, pretended it never happened, and now we're friends, and we pretty much laugh at it.
My point is, you need to get past things more easily. I do realise that Blur played a part by destroying your house without telling you, but it's his server, his rules.