I sent Magik the whole story a little bit more clearer.
I read it, and it is really no different then the one here. :/
What I'm basically trying to say to both of you, regardless of what happened, just move on. This isn't that big of a deal. Munk, if how he is running a server works for him, let him run it that way. Granted, I would allow 2nd chances as I feel not is a bit harsh, but that isn't my server. If it bothers you so much, don't go. Dear, no one is forcing you to do anything. Just let it go. Move on. Learn. I'd advise the same for you, Toxic. You don't need to dwell on this either.
What is done is done. We must move forward. Learn from the past, but live for today.