Author Topic: Oh, well now we're totally friends.  (Read 2700 times)

I understand that this forum is meant for complaining about a person, but if I tried to state the people who do this particular thing, the list would go on and on....

So it seems like more and more often, people have been coming to my server asking if I remember them, and naturally get all disappointed when I reply with a "...?". Now I've said this multiple times in the forums. I'm here to build, not to make friends. I think I make this message fairly clear when I talk to people. (On my server, I try to act serious and to the point with things.) And yet, every day I have someone coming to me asking this question. Even if I do remember them, I try not to acknowledge it, because it soon goes downhill if I claim that I do remember them. (They suddenly assume that now we're BEST FRIENDS and that I'll do anything for them, like give them admin, let them break the rules, or ban the person who criticized their build.)

*Sigh* It unfortunately makes me come off as a huge starfish, often times. I don't act like this on most sites. But really, if you've only seen the person on another server once, don't scramble over to their server for friendship. -_-'

I consider a person a friend when I first meet them, even if I sometimes forget details about them or them if we only met for a short amount of time. If they are disappointed, I assure them that we'll just build the grounds on a new foundation. Not everyone tries to exploit friendship to gain something for themselves.

Though, I understand where you are coming from with it. Just don't shrug them off, but also make them clear on your position. You aren't required to grow a friendship with someone, but you can still try to be kind. c:



Also, wanna be my friend?!?!  :cookieMonster:

Also, wanna be my friend?!?!  :cookieMonster:

No, you would smother me with friendship

No, you would smother me with friendship
:c

Well, Love to ye, regardless, dear. <3

i nned a dad cna i be ur son? U wunt frends nao? Pl0xies?

i nned a dad cna i be ur son? U wunt frends nao? Pl0xies?

But that's the thing, they don't actually come on that directly. They never come right out and go "Can we be friends?" If they did that, I might actually consider talking to them. But instead, they just always take a much more direct route of "I KNOW YOU. WE'RE FRIENDS. NOW BE MY BITCH."

It's a statement, rather than a request.

But that's the thing, they don't actually come on that directly. They never come right out and go "Can we be friends?" If they did that, I might actually consider talking to them. But instead, they just always take a much more direct route of "I KNOW YOU. WE'RE FRIENDS. NOW BE MY BITCH."

It's a statement, rather than a request.
They are commanding you to be their freinds?
/cigarettets

L we're friends! Remember?
You should make me super admin!

L we're friends! Remember?
You should make me super admin!
I should try that on a Family ROP to see if it works.

L we're friends! Remember?
You should make me super admin!
This. He's doing it right.

Hey L, I hate your stupid ass make me admin.


Please, I'm your friend!

Do you remember me though?

People who normally become my friends:

People who are friends with my friends.
Frequent server visitors (on mine or on a server that I also frequent) that aren't total morons.
Someone I spent a one-on-one bonding hour with when my server was slow and they decided to join.  I'm somewhat friends with Doomonkey thanks to one of those days (and he was also a friend with HellsHero)

Usually I lose friends after I take a hiatus from Blockland, but I never completely forget who they are.

I consider a person a friend when I first meet them,

I hate your attitude. Most everyone on blockland is an ass, get used to it. Most people hate anyone with a lick of common sense. Get used to it. Your positivity sickens me. Positivity in the face of horrific circumstances is a sign of over-riding ignorance. However, i don't believe your ignorant. You are simply... A few feet off the ground. You need to be a little more realistic. However, if you realized how terrible people are right now, and came down off this positivity high, you would probably die on impact.

I hate your attitude. Most everyone on blockland is an ass, get used to it. Most people hate anyone with a lick of common sense. Get used to it. Your positivity sickens me. Positivity in the face of horrific circumstances is a sign of over-riding ignorance. However, i don't believe your ignorant. You are simply... A few feet off the ground. You need to be a little more realistic. However, if you realized how terrible people are right now, and came down off this positivity high, you would probably die on impact.

What you say is correct form your perspective. Not everyone hates an optimist peacemaker. Some do. That's their problem. The blockland forums world is a horrible place.
For me, optimists are always a good thing.
If the world had no people like Magick, we would all be much worse off. Including you.

Ontopic: Be thankful that you are popular, at least.