Getting in touch with my mom. [Reply]

[IkeTheGeneric]

Just kidding dude, I hope it all turns out well :D

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[Caution]

Sorry for yet another bump, but now I feel like I have to somehow get my family to forgive her like I have, to view her in a different light and to really feel like she's sorry.

She said she was and when I told my dad and grandma she said such, they basically both said that she's always sorry.

Today I got another reply and learned she has seven Chihuahuas, and though I found it shocking, I found it funny. When I told my grandma, she just flat out called her stupid. I don't know why but that just pissed me off. Someone who gets animals from shelters and might be lonely can adopt loving pets without being labeled an idiot.

Some people are just loving annoying to me.

What do you think I should do?

[Colten]

I agree with your grandma. Also is this some kind of interactive story where we choose your fate? I can understand needing help with a few decisions but you ask after every update

[Caution]

I agree with your grandma. Also is this some kind of interactive story where we choose your fate? I can understand needing help with a few decisions but you ask after every update

Because I don't know whose side to be on, I don't know if the actions my mom performed are actually unforgivable. I don't know what I should think unless I take a step back and look at the bigger picture and get some advice from people.

[*Magick* Mage]

Because I don't know whose side to be on, I don't know if the actions my mom performed are actually unforgivable. I don't know what I should think unless I take a step back and look at the bigger picture and get some advice from people.

Don't take sides. Don't pin yourself against her or the rest of the family. I guarantee that you'll wind up getting hurt if you do such.

But on another note, none of your Mother's actions are unforgivable. She's your mother, regardless, and has obviously showed she cares for you. Just because your family doesn't forgive her doesn't mean you can't. That's my input on the matter.

Ultimately, you must look at the big picture through your eyes. You are the only one who can make you forgive her, you are the only who can make you keep writing, and you are the only one who can allow you to Love her.

[Menen]

seven Chihuahuas

Her Husband is Mexican

[Skyfrost]

just surpirse her, go to her house out of no where, and express how you feel face to face

[LegendZ]

B'aww.

And a little *Magick* just made it perfect.

[*Magick* Mage]

just surpirse her, go to her house out of no where, and express how you feel face to face

He's explained he can't afford it and it would be rather awkward. :o

And a little *Magick* just made it perfect.

O u

[Caution]

Her Husband is Mexican

No. He's not.

Don't take sides. Don't pin yourself against her or the rest of the family. I guarantee that you'll wind up getting hurt if you do such.

But on another note, none of your Mother's actions are unforgivable. She's your mother, regardless, and has obviously showed she cares for you. Just because your family doesn't forgive her doesn't mean you can't. That's my input on the matter.

Ultimately, you must look at the big picture through your eyes. You are the only one who can make you forgive her, you are the only who can make you keep writing, and you are the only one who can allow you to Love her.

It's so awkward though to be the only one out of my entire family to really talk to her and forgive her. In that event I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to about her because then they will all have the same opinion, and that is, of course, dislike.

[*Magick* Mage]

It's so awkward though to be the only one out of my entire family to really talk to her and forgive her. In that event I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to about her because then they will all have the same opinion, and that is, of course, dislike.

Then don't talk about her to them if they will be like that. But, in the first place, it isn't their position to judge if you forgive her or not and what to make of it. They may just want to help, yes, but you are the one that ultimately has to make the decision. You are the one that will live with it. And I'm sure that, eventually, sink or swim, your family will be there for you if your decision is true, even if they disagree.

Plus, you can always talk about her here. c:

[Caution]

Then don't talk about her to them if they will be like that. But, in the first place, it isn't their position to judge if you forgive her or not and what to make of it. They may just want to help, yes, but you are the one that ultimately has to make the decision. You are the one that will live with it. And I'm sure that, eventually, sink or swim, your family will be there for you if your decision is true, even if they disagree.

Plus, you can always talk about her here. c:

It will just get annoying with everybody having a negative view on her.

And I don't feel like I can talk about her here for much longer because people like this:

Also is this some kind of interactive story where we choose your fate? I can understand needing help with a few decisions but you ask after every update

are apparently getting irritated.

[LegendZ]

Mage is the only one you can talk to about these kind of stuff. He is good at it. Somehow I think he is going to be a therapist one day.

[*Magick* Mage]

It will just get annoying with everybody having a negative view on her.

And I don't feel like I can talk about her here for much longer because people like this:

I'll always be glad to talk to you about it, then. c:

Mage is the only one you can talk to about these kind of stuff. He is good at it. Somehow I think he is going to be a therapist one day.

You're so kind. :3 <3

[Caution]

I'll always be glad to talk to you about it, then. c:

Haha, thanks, I'll keep this in mind.

Thanks a lot, Mage.