Are these people male and have they gone through puberty yet?
Sick bastard.........
And they probably can't connect because of the server's "Ping", it's ehhh, well I don't know about important, But I'm pretty sure its the ping or you might just have a bad add-on they can't DL, like me, I can't join half the servers because of a possible add-on thats just a stuffty minute-made thing.