I doubt the first girl is more athletic than me. Gamer girls are awful by the way.
I found out the hard way.
She was so loving immature. Aside from that she thought she knew everything just because she spent all day on her computer... and so did everyone else, apart from me, because I'm at least computer literate!
Edit:
I like girls that talk about stuff that doesn't revolve around stuff like video-games or athletics. Why can't you talk about stuff to her that matters, like making cake? Go for a walk, discuss life, discuss future, discuss past- discuss present! This is what matters.