Even if we hate to admit it, this forum is oriented towards teens and maybe even younger people. Sure, anyone can look up research on the internet lately, but can't we just, you know, let research stay on research sites and not flaunt this into the younger audiences' face? Is it really necessary to let everyone know about your fantasies? I'd like to ask you to be a bit more considerate, because frankly, I'm sick and tired of everyone whining about you. No, I don't want you to give up everything I just want you to be comfortable enough with your lifestyle so you won't need the hateful impulses from the community to assure you in your choice.
tl;dr: Guys, be a bit more considerate and reasonable. You don't need to let us know about everything you may or may not be. Thank you.