srs bzns with the Blockland Forums: love at a young Age

[Joker Card]

the " no love before marriage" concept is ancient customs that supported men basically owning their wives. they would be bought or gifted from family and friends. taking a womans virginity was a ritual. it meant she was your wife. in times where many cultures men had multiple wives. a sign of wealth.

the reason this whole fantasy of saving yourself for marriage is dying out is because modern society isnt so archaic. and woman and basic equal rights now.

So because not waiting to have love means that young people should be having love? Oh, and just to mention, my Science teacher supports teen love. Even though she's like 40 or something. I Personally think that its only wrong to have sen when you are young because (if) you have a baby, you don't really have a future ahead of you. you'll be too busy to take care of a baby. And then most teens are loving morons that don't use protection with a person who said tat they are a virgin and they end up getting an STI. Now I'm not saying that this happens to everyone, but it does happen. And guess what? You now have an STI at the age of like 14 OR you have a new generation added to the family while your parents generation isn't even a loving adult.I say at least wait until you are an official adult, out of highschool or College before you engage in love. loveual things such as blow jobs and hand jobs, I'm fine with that. But full on love I don not approve of until you are loving capable of taking care of a baby without loving your whole life over.

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[Bisjac]

I didn't read the 6 pages, but I'm going to blame this on the media, specifically music. Just listen to the lyrics of some pop songs today, and the image the artists portray.

this was the same thing they said about music 10 years ago. about movies. about films 70 years ago. about books. about music 100 years ago.
about a girl riding in an automobile. about designers making clothes shorter.

everything has always been to blame.
but we can "thank" evolving society. open mindedness comes with education. and more freedoms give more education.

[Bisjac]

babies babies babies

any 12 year old can buy a condom with pocket change from a million places he lives near.
there is no age limit.

[Joker Card]

this was the same thing they said about music 10 years ago. about movies. about films 70 years ago. about books. about music 100 years ago.
about a girl riding in an automobile. about designers making clothes shorter.

everything has always been to blame.
but we can "thank" evolving society. open mindedness comes with education. and more freedoms give more education.

But you have to admit, Media has changed a lot since the older days. You can't watch a current day show without them amking a love joke. If you watch the older shows, rarely do they make love jokes. Most music now a day talks about love and drugs. Not saying that music back then didn't but it was a  lot less.

[Dodger]

Society has been getting progressively more permissive. Its not surprising.

[Madmitten]

I didn't read the 6 pages, but I'm going to blame this on the media, specifically music. Just listen to the lyrics of some pop songs today, and the image the artists portray.

The parents of these young kids are getting into this music, and that's passing down to very young kids. I'm sure in their heads they're just curious and experimenting but they don't know at all what they're doing I'm sure. I mean, it can't be that great since most kids don't go through puberty until 13 and up.

my mom says i should wait to have love
but if its something i MUST do, then use a condom and birth control

[Trifax]

Media has always been to blame, i agree Bisjac, but the new problem lies in that parents are accepting the popular culture of changing times and HEAVILY influencing their children with it. It just makes the message I mentioned artists and clothing lines are sending more unfortunate. That, seemingly, the sole advertisement technique is loveual attraction (or humor). Those are the most effective though, so I can't really blame them...

[Joker Card]

my mom says i should wait to have love
but if its something i MUST do, then use a condom and birth control

What is this situation?

[Mister Cheese]

Sort of off topic: All the music I have heard lately doesn't talk about drugs, it talks about pure romance. >_>
Ontopic: I wouldn't plan on marriage until after college, cause, if you impregnated a girl in your first year of college, and word gets out... Well, things wouldn't run too well.

[Trifax]

YOU HAVE 30 SECONDS TO DECIDE. love WITH THIS 9 YEAR OLD, OR DIE.

Seems legit.

[JAW959]

this was the same thing they said about music 10 years ago. about movies. about films 70 years ago. about books. about music 100 years ago.
about a girl riding in an automobile. about designers making clothes shorter.

everything has always been to blame.
but we can "thank" evolving society. open mindedness comes with education. and more freedoms give more education.

But if society's morals just naturally decompose over time shouldn't I be out rape-killing right now because it's going to happen eventually?

Also I had no idea so many members of this forum like their chicks older. I approve.

[Proog]

To be honest I wouldn't like the idea of being with a whore who's slept with half of the people you know.
Maybe I'm just too old fashioned.

[Trifax]

I think that would make for awkward interaction...stick with one persons eliminates drama and all that...

[Madmitten]

What is this situation?

as in im under extreme pressure and im horny and stuff
but i require a condom

[Bisjac]

But if society's morals just naturally decompose

this is objective. you feel as if they are getting worse. but on who's standards? clearly not society's.

we gain more rights every decade. not just legally, but as we develop.

it basically comes with the evolving of other things. we cant develop socially AND suppress ourselves, it wont work.
humanity is expressing what it has always wanted, but feared. because we are free to when we never were before.