That's just low. Manipulating women for your own personal gain just so you can have a little high school relationship that won't even last a month is just stupid and shallow.
@OP I really hope you actually like her for her PERSONALITY.
isnt manipulating what dating is? trying to change yourself into something datable, trying to change others into something datable?
yes.
its a fact, thats how its always been, and always will be. thats what dating is. learning what you like and dont like about others.
this is how humans interact with each other in these matters.
just because i am breaking it down to its most basic blunt points, dont mean its wrong, or even bad.
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if no manipulation of socialization was done, then people would just be paired up without talk or reason. dating wouldnt exist, and we would have no thoughts on the opp love.