Author Topic: A guy I went to school with died  (Read 1624 times)

I didn't know him and aside from the well that sucks reaction I feel quite unaffected, however people who went to my school all seem to care. Am I a bad person for not crying over this?

Also I was thinking about if I died would anyone really give a stuff, and more importantly in my opinion, would I even want them to give a stuff?

No, I understand why others feel bad because it happened at there school.
I remember when this same thing happened to me.

I didnt care aslong with others.

My friend was horribly murdered by a poisonous spider :c

...

And then he respawned. :D

Also I was thinking about if I died would anyone really give a stuff, and more importantly in my opinion, would I even want them to give a stuff?

I think I have an article explaining just that.

http://www.cracked.com/article_14990_what-monkeysphere.html

We read this in my Theory of Knowledge class and apart from having us all laughing really hard, it makes some very true points that we rarely think about.

Now, imagine you get four more monkeys. We'll call them Tito, Bubbles, Marcel and stuffTosser. Imagine personalities for each of them now. Maybe one is aggressive, one is affectionate, one is quiet, the other just throws stuff all the time.

Read more: http://www.cracked.com/article_14990_what-monkeysphere.html#ixzz1HJGfjF5e

Why the forget would you post the exact same loving article he just posted.
And also that is not exactly what I was getting at at all. I was more meaning within my group of friends, I wouldn't want them to care about me dieing.


I think it's more of that people handle death differently than others.

I had a really good friend of mine die two weeks ago. I felt pretty bad but didnt cry or anything.

I can't cry at funerals.

I hardly cry anymore.

EDIT: accurate display of a normal funeral for me: holy stuff there is a dead guy that i know,i am sad. why the forget am i not crying i feel like a horrible person aaaaaaa
« Last Edit: March 22, 2011, 04:56:54 AM by kanew2000 »

I remember when a kid at my school died in a fire a few years ago.
She was pretty poor, lived in a caravan.
She was in Grade 5 or 6, I can't remember.
It was pretty hard on Grade 5 and 6.

You're not a bad person for not caring. I really don't care if anyone but my brother, my mother, my nephew, or my friends die. Everyone else can die and I won't be affected. However my friends here on the forum, if they die I will be sad. :C

you don't give a stuff, so don't give a stuff

forget what everyone else says.

no seriously. forget them.

This exact same thing happened to me. Half the school was crying over it for days. But I didn't, because I didn't know him. I cared, but I didn't care that much because up until then I had barely any idea who he was.

If you weren't even close to this guy, I don't see any reason why you should be crying over it.

in highschool, some student died from drunnk driving. the next say everyone is getting all sad. i never heard of the guy, didnt know him.
i said "meh, his fault"
and everyone was all pissed at me lol. like i should suddenly give a stuff about the guy.

you don't give a stuff, so don't give a stuff

forget what everyone else says.

no seriously. forget them.

should he be gentle or forget them hard?