I feel kinda bad for you, but at the same time, I don't really. Maybe I don't know what it's like to be socially dysfunctional, but if you're such an open person on the forums I don't see how real life is much different. I mean, I suppose there is the anonymity of it all, if there wasn't a "Post Real Life Pictures of yourself" thread here.
All I can say, since I don't really know how that feels, is do your best to be more open to people, and that we're always here for ya.