Especially considering you did get upset when he told you to get over someone across the county.
You're distorting things again. His message was: 'lol u mad?' -- Maybe you're interpreting that differently than me. Maybe there's some sort of hidden message that is actually full of compassion. But, probably not.
P.S. Even though I am entirely over her, I will admit: Out of all the people I've held little crushes on, out of all the little stints with women I've had both in real life and offline, this person is the only one I've had real affection for. The rejection was gut-wrenching, to say the least. No one else ever meant that much to me,
ever.
Take it as you will, I offer you the truth.