Author Topic: She lied and never loved me..?  (Read 2752 times)

Cheyenne and I were going out for about a month, and we went to movies once, the mall like 6 times, and other places. Over the weekend (Saturday and a bit of Sunday) I went to stay the night at my friend Johnathan's house, all for Cheyenne since she asked me if I was gonna stay at Johnathan's so she could stay at Zowie's, who lives two houses away from Johnathan's. At 11pm me and John went over to Zowie's and she opened the window and told us they're coming out. Over the entire night, from 11pm to 4am, me and Cheyenne constantly hugged, held hands, made out. We got back at 4am. Here are a couple of the majour events we went through that morning.

X-Caliber:

X-Caliber is the neighborhood security guard that goes around in a Preius with the orange lighs, 'Arrowhead Security', blah blah. We were at the playground and he pulls into the parking lot about 50 metres away. We all quietly go into the plastic tube thing (inb4stupidlovejoke) and hide from him, considering he could bust us for being out so late and tell on us. Anyway, we're there for about 25 minutes, and then we end up sneaking away. We jumped the fence about 10 metres away. I started to walk away from the playground when we saw him pull out of the parking lot. Then Cheyenne tells us she thinks he turned into the street next to us so we turned around and started to jog away. I was already running before Cheyenne notified us, so I of course had to turn on the break and spin around and get my ass outta there. I end up tripping over something, turning 180 degrees, my arm flails around to my back and my left shoulder blade lands very hard on a hard-ass tree root coming out of the ground. I walk away limping because all my pain in my body is centred on my shoulder, so my left leg isnt working smoothly. Anyway, yes, most likely my shoulder was dislocated.


Coming home:

After the 5 hours of stuff going down, we finally got back to Zowie's house. Me and Johnathan sat outside the window and Zowie and Cheyenne were at the window talking to me while Johnathan screws around with the bushes. Me and Johnathan end up crawling into the window and sitting down. We ended up sleeping over there secretly. At the time I was still in a stuff load of pain and out of breath almost entirely. I had the greatest glass of water there. Johnathan and Cheyenne soon fall asleep leaving me and Zowie awake talking for an hour. I got to know her better and she's amazing. Anyway, that's that, and we fell asleep and woke up at 7am and me and Johnathan needed to leave at about 6:30 because that's around the time Zowie's dad wakes up. So we ran out.


Anyway, after all the things we did that night, and all the times we went out before this, all of the "I love you"s and hugging and kissing, Cheyenne (IN A TEXT) tells me she's breaking up with me. She tells me she didnt love me. She says she only liked how I made her feel loved with all the things I said, and that she wants to forget that night entirely. I got pissed at her and just ignored her completely after asking her why the hell she hugged me, kissed me, and told me she loved me. Now basically what mood she's in right now is this:

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Mon. May 2 0:36 pm

At least I was honest. I like us friends..just friends. Nothing moreee. And I just don't like youu. I dont like you at all and you're a desperate dumbass and can go away and leave me alone. I dont care if you go back out with cierra (Cierra? What the hell? We broke up a month before we started going out.) because your a desperate piece of stuff. She might as well be ugly like her.. (I think she meant to say Im ugly like her) wo u lied 2 me 2..u said I wuz the onyl girl u liked..obviously not if ur dating Cierra right away..soooo..in otherr words ur desperate and will go out with any girl.

Im not going out with Cierra, and have no interest in her what-so-ever. I never told her I dont like any other girls, either. Before she started liking me (if she liked me at all), I told her even though Autumn broke up with me, I told her I would love her forever, no matter how mad I get at her. Im a man of my word, and yes, I still love Autumn, because she dumped me for a good reason that had something to do with her other boyfriends, and I didnt do anything wrong, and she didnt ever hate me after that. Anyway, she is loving stupid and lied to me entirely. Our entire relationship was a cruel joke and a lie, and she never loved me.

Please explain to me why the hell any of this happened, tell if anything like this ever happened with your boyfriend/girlfriend, and what you did about it. Discuss this, and tell me what the hell I should do after crying for an hour and hating myself and breaking stuff here and there and everywhere. Now Im just pissed as hell at her.

/discussandexplain

Oh god you just posted that on an internet forum



from her text i think it was a good thing you two broke up cause she sounded like a complete moron

She broke up with you because you but still wanted to be friends, sounds like she cares about you but you can't hate her for not loving you like you do her.

It does not loving matter.

Move on.

from her text i think it was a good thing you two broke up cause she sounded like a complete moron
"I wanna be your friend but you're a desperate dumbass yes?"

punch that bitch in the ladyballs.
then reflect on fun times you had.
then remember they were all a lie.
so punch her in the ladyballs once more.

From the text and the sotry, she sounds like a complete dumbstuff. You mentioned getting to kn ow Zowie, do just go out with here to spite cheyanne, and get a new girl.

She sounds dumb. I wouldn't waste my time with someone dumb.

She was using you dumbass. No girl will break up with you for no good reason.

your friends all have black names

Is it bad that I'm laughing? I'm sorry though, happened to a friend of mine. He not only was pissed he knocked her out.


Please explain to me why the hell any of this happened
NO PROBLEM:

I assume you're in High School, so let me lay this on you: You never loved each other. Your entire relationship was a sham. You didn't actually connect and excused everything else because you could tolerate each other. Your entire relationship was built on something transparent. "I love you" is easy to say, and coupled with certain feelings, can seem like the truth. Now because you're a teenager, it's also easy to be overly dramatic. That whole night was her lying to your face because she was enjoying herself then, but after being alone and contemplating, she realized her actual feelings and broke up with you. That sentence alone is your ENTIRE relationship in a nutshell. Additionally, it's possible you leeched the life out of your relationship by staying in CONSTANT communication.

What you thought: "We're in love, I'd do anything for her, etc etc"

The reality: "We're nice to each other and can tolerate each others company"

So, evaluate your relationship. Did you have anything in common, did you learn anything, is she who you thought she was, etc.

Finally, listen to this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJtf7R_oVaw