i did a little experiment today. two guys who harass me for no reason (these aren't "cool" people, these are pathetic outcasts lower on the food chain than i am) tried to piss with me. i just ignored them and went on with my stuff. they even tried putting things in my mouth, i just calmly took the stuff out of their hands (they are also extremely weak.) everyone laughed at them and their failure. apparently just staying calm works almost as well as punching them in the face, just without the suspension and split knuckles. in my experience all you need to do to get girls is seem interesting and all that good stuff. don't say much and think carefully about what you say.