my parents are divorced
when my father actually calls i sit next to my moms room door and wait for the show to begin
See, you don't have to deal with it all the time.
My mom's present boyfriend is South Korean, and he's cool.
Except my mom apparently REALLY enjoys starting arguments, because he said one thing about her driving (which was pretty much something I say all the damn time) and she just went off on him.
He's really submissive though, so I've never heard him argue. My mom had to tell him to argue once.
I had a really strong urge to say something along the lines of "if you start this bullstuff with him too, you can forget about me staying at your house any more."
Because I do have a father and a grandmother who would both be very willing to allow me to live with them.