Why can't we all just get along? :C
That's not how humans work.
I had given Tom several second chances, every time I unblocked him for a warzone 2100 game, I never mentioned any of the stuff that went on, in hopes that we could mend the fence. It always ended in two things:
1. Him doing something during the game to relight the fire
2. Him doing something during the game to relight the fire tomorrow.
The longest I've had him unblocked was 2 days.