Author Topic: I am sad.  (Read 4950 times)

you guys are acting stupid

keo
im not trying to get into it
its just the way your reacting to something as "Small" as this is that you seemed tired
once again,
i can't judge what i do not pay much attention to no offence

I've had almost this exact same thing with another girl, I understand. But....

I do feel bad and I'm just trying to help even if it may pass off as being an starfish.
Oh bullstuff. When you post things like

I suck it up, I think optimistically and go, "Hey. I'm sure it wasn't meant to be anyways!"

...it's easy to conclude that you have never been in a relationship. Besides, aren't you gay? You shouldn't be giving a straight person advice any time soon.

Oh I'm sorry, I apologize for not liking to wallow in self pity.

I'm fifteen, plus I have no desire for it.

I have strong opinions when it comes to topics like this. Until I'm proven otherwise I'll continue to believe in what I believe in.

One more thought: a true brown townytical would brown townyze the scenario from all points of view, not just what you believe in. You can't just ignore a side of something because you don't agree with it and then ride into the sunset on your high horse calling yourself brown townytical. Sorry.

keo
im not trying to get into it
its just the way your reacting to something as "Small" as this is that you seemed tired
once again,

"Small"?

I hate seeing people marrying each other and divorcing within a matter of month.

...it's easy to conclude that you have never been in a relationship. Besides, aren't you gay? You shouldn't be giving a straight person advice any time soon.

I don't like to have love! I MUST BE GAY!!!

One more thought: a true brown townytical would brown townyze the scenario from all points of view, not just what you believe in. You can't just ignore a side of something because you don't agree with it and then ride into the sunset on your high horse calling yourself brown townytical. Sorry.

Ok I'll try to put myself in Skate's shoes...

Nope still wouldn't have acted that way.

I don't believe in being depressed and wanting pity of others. I'm brown townytical that way. I suck it up, I think optimistically and go, "Hey. I'm sure it wasn't meant to be anyways!"

I do feel bad and I'm just trying to help even if it may pass off as being an starfish.

I'm sure if you were placed in a similar situation and had a similar connection to what Skae was feeling, you wouldn't be too happy either. You may be an optimist but you can expect people to believe you can foresee yourself getting over it in an instant. Clearly you don't seem to understand how close they were to each other. If you can't imagine having a girlfriend like he had, consider losing your best friend. That wouldn't feel good, would it?

He's not expecting pity, to say he is is just being a straight up jackass. He's venting and sharing his experience. Its nice to let people in occasionally, even if you don't know them. It doesn't seem you're trying to help because if you knew anything about helping people the last thing you should do is tell them the things they don't want to hear because it makes them feel stufftier.


I have strong opinions when it comes to topics like this. Until I'm proven otherwise I'll continue to believe in what I believe in.
So you expect him to dig up pictures he may or may not want to see again due to the fact that he is in grief?

Ok I'll try to put myself in Skate's shoes...

Nope still wouldn't have acted that way.

You're out of arguments, aren't you?

I'm sure if you were placed in a similar situation and had a similar connection to what Skae was feeling, you wouldn't be too happy either. You may be an optimist but you can expect people to believe you can foresee yourself getting over it in an instant. Clearly you don't seem to understand how close they were to each other. If you can't imagine having a girlfriend like he had, consider losing your best friend. That wouldn't feel good, would it?

He's not expecting pity, to say he is is just being a straight up jackass. He's venting and sharing his experience. Its nice to let people in occasionally, even if you don't know them. It doesn't seem you're trying to help because if you knew anything about helping people the last thing you should do is tell them the things they don't want to hear because it makes them feel stufftier.

When I lived in Colorado I had the best friends I could ever asked for. When I moved I hated school, I hated my life, I just wanted to go back.

Here I am thinking about how stupid I was and how much better my friends are over where I live now.

Ok I'll try to put myself in Skate's shows...

Nope still wouldn't have acted that way.

Yes you would have. If you were him, you would have acted that way, because he did. I don't know what you're trying to prove here by continually trying to shoot him down, but you're making yourself look extremely unintelligent and it's almost as if your ego is growing from every post as well. I understand that you've never experienced emotions as Skate has, either that or you chose to ignore them, but you have to understand that not everybody works the same way. Skate is clearly not an individual who can just forget this incident and leave it behind him, he needed time to think about what happened and express himself through what I assume is crying. The world is not black and white.

Ok I'll try to put myself in Skate's shoes...

Nope still wouldn't have acted that way.
Then you need to think things through a little more then acting like you're too manly to have feelings for others. It's no longer cool to give others criticism for having feelings.


And I swear, there's a topic around here somewhere where someone else reveals your true loveuality. I think it was kira.

When I lived in Colorado I had the best friends I could ever asked for. When I moved I hated school, I hated my life, I just wanted to go back.

Here I am thinking about how stupid I was and how much better my friends are over where I live now.

Invalid + unrelated unless it involved a relationship.

I do feel bad and I'm just trying to help even if it may pass off as being an starfish.
horsestuff

Yes you would have. If you were him, you would have acted that way, because he did. I don't know what you're trying to prove here by continually trying to shoot him down, but you're making yourself look extremely unintelligent and it's almost as if your ego is growing from every post as well. I understand that you've never experienced emotions as Skate has, either that or you chose to ignore them, but you have to understand that not everybody works the same way. Skate is clearly not an individual who can just forget this incident and leave it behind him, he needed time to think about what happened and express himself through what I assume is crying. The world is not black and white.

Oh because I've never felt heartbreak, I've never been sad.

When I'm stuff out of luck I begin to cry but then I realize that isn't going to do jack stuff. I pick myself up and I try to actually DO something even if it is futile.

Invalid + unrelated unless it involved a relationship.

Friendship is a form of a relationship whether you want to admit or not. But yes there was a girl I liked.