I got to the 3rd paragraph and stopped reading. You said you weren't taking it to a religious stand point, but yet you did. You would never kill an innocent child, as I explained before, it won't know its died. I do have thoughts running through my head if I were to think of aborting a child, but I would know it was for the better.
THEN, you mention soul, that is another religious stand point, not all people in this world are religious or have the same religion as you, so quit bringing it on.