it was never so messy for me
my parents are never constructive and list everything wrong with me all the time and then my mom claims she "can't take it anymore" with everything I do
so basically I feel like I'm ruining everyone's lives
i subscribe therapy to both parents and child.
a parents troubled past could easily be resurfacing and being dumped on you. the reality of the matter is, what they're saying is bullstuff.
or, perhaps they're just starfishs. parents aren't perfect, it's just two humans attempting to parent.