if I ever went to reddit instead of imagining some weird happy forums scenario
we all could
Come to think of it, I guess it's not that hard when everything on reddit is separated by interests and people don't generally go to places full of things they don't like
I found this post to be rather useful:
The point is that it's hard. If it was easy to Love and Tolerate all the time it wouldn't be worth much. It's like giving someone a round of applause for breathing.
Your love and tolerance are best displayed when it is hardest to do so.
I need to be a better person
