Let me add the part of all this involving IRC.
First, after his perma ban, he starts going "lol" and "its funny because you thought i was serious", thinking that was going to get him anywhere after I was deciding to put up with him saying all this stuff for about 5-10 minutes. Eventually after calling him out making sure he knows how pissed I was/am, I /ignore'd him. Not even 5 minutes after I /ignore'd him, he starts IRCing Ark5, first asking me to forgive him. After I say no about a million loving times, he starts going off again calling her a slut, Ark5 a dumbass, and me a cigarette and a badmin. Again, I have no proof, and either way the complete friendry was on Ark5's IRC, not mine.