Author Topic: Hard decision. (Read 1166 times)

Shinji · July 13, 2011, 01:07:13 AM

Okay, now a lot of you know i'll be leaving for basic training for the US Army next year and probably be deployed to Libya since Obama wants to deploy ground troops over there and congress is leaning towards yes. But here's the thing, I've always wanted a kid. Now the question is this, I already have a pretty steady girlfriend, right? I want to know if I should get her pregnant before I leave, or when I come back if I do. This stuff's been bugging me for a few weeks now, and I need opinions. Yeah I know it's loving stupid asking a forum for a lego game but a lot of you are intelligent enough to help me out. Opinions?

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Bisjac · July 13, 2011, 01:08:09 AM

dont do it. marry her before you leave maybe. but not kid.

Stocking · July 13, 2011, 01:08:21 AM

You won't be deployed to Libya, the US is too loving broke to wage another war.

Get her pregnant, otherwise she'll be loving another guy before you've earned your first two days of leave.

Gaythan Gayes · July 13, 2011, 01:08:27 AM

ask her to marry you. go to war. come back. impregnate her.

Ningyou · July 13, 2011, 01:08:58 AM

Don't do it, if you die that kid won't have a dad

Quote from: Gaythan Gayes on July 13, 2011, 01:08:27 AM

ask her to marry you. go to war. come back. impregnate her.

That sounds so wrong lol

Bisjac · July 13, 2011, 01:09:39 AM

of course i dont trust girls anyways. i wouldnt be away from a gf for more then a month without calling it a breakup.
any girl can and will forget another guy lol.

asablief · July 13, 2011, 01:09:55 AM

Wait. If she is loyal to you she will still be there for you when you get back.

Gaythan Gayes · July 13, 2011, 01:10:13 AM

Quote from: Ningyou on July 13, 2011, 01:08:58 AM

Don't do it, if you die that kid won't have a dad
That sounds so wrong lol

agreed, never had dad, forgeted up my life

Ningyou · July 13, 2011, 01:11:37 AM

Quote from: asablief on July 13, 2011, 01:09:55 AM

Wait. If she is loyal to you she will still be there for you when you get back.

Yup, but who knows...

Bisjac · July 13, 2011, 01:12:47 AM

usually chicks are the ones who think getting knocked up promises the guy back to them and they can sleep at night assuming you are loyal.

you doing the ol reversal paranoia.

Shinji · July 13, 2011, 01:13:20 AM

The thing is we've been on and off. We've recently got over the fight we had a while ago, now we're really close again. She's been loyal the whole time we've been going out, at least as far as I know.

asablief · July 13, 2011, 01:13:36 AM

Will you get to go on leave after basic training, or will you be in combat before your first leave?

Shinji · July 13, 2011, 01:16:14 AM

Quote from: asablief on July 13, 2011, 01:13:36 AM

Will you get to go on leave after basic training, or will you be in combat before your first leave?

No idea, we're leaving Afghanistan but Obama's starting a whole forgetload of other wars over the globe so i'm not sure yet.

FrozenEye · July 13, 2011, 01:19:02 AM

Quote from: Shinji on July 13, 2011, 01:13:20 AM

The thing is we've been on and off. We've recently got over the fight we had a while ago, now we're really close again. She's been loyal the whole time we've been going out, at least as far as I know.

Is she hot?

asablief · July 13, 2011, 01:21:26 AM

Quote from: FrozenEye on July 13, 2011, 01:19:02 AM

Is she hot?

not a time to joke

Also I don't think it would be right for a newborn to grow for 1-2 years without a dad.