Author Topic: Hard decision.  (Read 1182 times)


Most women dont want to be married to someone in a war zone because they fear them dying and losing the one they loved so in a way marrying her would be bad. However if you didnt marry her and just stayed as her boyfriend and went to a war its possible she would leave you.
This IS a hard choice to make but in any case it would be better to marry than to impregnate.

not a time to joke

Also I don't think it would be right for a newborn to grow for 1-2 years without a dad.


Also this, you have to think of the effect it would have on her and the baby.

It'd suck to die without a kid though, that's one thing I've wanted for a while.

Army wives aren't the most trustworthy wives.
But maybe, if she's willing to commit to having a child, it'll be more likely she'll stay.

This is truly a decision to get some sleep on.

It'd suck to die without a kid though, that's one thing I've wanted for a while.
It would also suck to have a kid and then die leaving them alone and sad.

It'd suck to die without a kid though, that's one thing I've wanted for a while.
I would agree, that would be very bad, but you have to think, wouldn't it be a bit selfish? The kid doesn't get a say in the matter.

I would agree, that would be very bad, but you have to think, wouldn't it be a bit selfish? The kid doesn't get a say in the matter.

stuff, that's true. I'm so confused right now.

It would also suck to have a kid and then die leaving them alone and sad.
Actually, they won't be THAT sad figuring the baby never knew his/her father. Plus the fact that they're just a newborn baby, they won't understand what's going on in the beginning.

Why are you asking us this, anyway? Wouldn't it be better to discuss it with the woman who you are planning to impregnate in the first place?
I mean, it is the course of the rest of her life you're trying to decide here :l

Why are you asking us this, anyway? Wouldn't it be better to discuss it with the woman who you are planning to impregnate in the first place?
I mean, it is the course of the rest of her life you're trying to decide here :l

I haven't talked to her about it yet because I don't want this stuff to come out of nowhere or something like that.

Actually, they won't be THAT sad figuring the baby never knew his/her father. Plus the fact that they're just a newborn baby, they won't understand what's going on in the beginning.

Yeah, it would be his last legacy too.

Shinji, you'll be an aircraft gunner am I correct? So you'll be in and out of drop zones?

Actually, they won't be THAT sad figuring the baby never knew his/her father. Plus the fact that they're just a newborn baby, they won't understand what's going on in the beginning.
Yes but thats only in the beginning, the mother will still be sad and in trouble because she lost her husband and now has to care for the baby on her own, also the baby will still have to grow up without a father anyway. But your right if your gonna go die with a baby do it before it knows you. :/

Yes but thats only in the beginning, the mother will still be sad and in trouble because she lost her husband and now has to care for the baby on her own, also the baby will still have to grow up without a father anyway. But your right if your gonna go die with a baby do it before it knows you. :/
I know my dad but he was never really there for me. Now I'm not close to him at all but that's his fault. It's perfectly fine to grow up without a dad, you're just much closer to your mom.

Yeah, it would be his last legacy too.

Shinji, you'll be an aircraft gunner am I correct? So you'll be in and out of drop zones?

No, i'll have to be infantry since my recruiter mislead me.