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[(Fallen)]

Well recently I have been dating this girl from our school for about 3 months. But now I just don't feel I should be dating her. It feels that the relationship is not working out. Now flashback in time before I started dating her: There were two girls, the one I'm dating now but not then and this other girl I am good friends with. I was going to ask the person that i was good friends with out but I was to inconfident and I thought i would get rejected so I started to get to know the other girl and eventually asked her out.

But today I was just talking to the one I am good friends with and she told me that she liked me for a long time. Now thinking about how my current relationship wasn't going well I thought I could somehow do a non drama break up. I don't want to hurt her feelings but It feels like I am an old 75 year old man that has Low T and lost interest. I know this may seem bad but I think if I take a bad relationship to far and break up with her to late it will turn out worse than if i broke up with her a bit earlier. So please guys help me out, what should I do? I also need a non drama break up line if I am going to break up with her. If not just give me another option.

EDIT: I decided to stay with my current girlfriend because I didn't want to leave her for another girl and break her heart.

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[Dodger]

Why do you want to break up with her? What do you mean by "getting tired" of her?

[Aphtonites]

"tired of her"
Wait, so you were just "using" her like that? [No love/feminism jokes, please], that's the only reason given and you want to jump to get another girlfriend?
Serioulsy, that's a dumb move, you can't just hop over to another girlfriend whenever you feel like it, stay with her for a while, do something with her to make the bond stronger, but if you seriously need another one like that, be honest.

[Ningyou]

It's a crush, you'll get over it.

Actually no. It may be a crush but it could also be because you spend too much time with her. I had this, don't do it bro, this might destroy your relationship with her.

[Mr.LoLHaX]

"It's not you, it's me."

[Nickelob Ultra]

Feel free to dump her and jump on someone else, but you'll look like a gigantic starfish if you do.  Seriously, no sympathy will be given for you if things go wrong.  I heavily advise it.

Break up with current girlfriend, wait a while, then approach next.  If the new one approaches you quickly or at all after breaking up with old one, then say that you're not ready to go back into dating just yet (some variation of this).  This tells her that you're not the "jump/hump/dump" kind of guy.

[(Fallen)]

Changed it up a bit to better express my feelings and problem.

[Lørd Tøny]

I first thought this was about periods, title is misleading.

[Nickelob Ultra]

Changed it up a bit to better express my feelings and problem.

You could just go ahead and start already flirting with new girl (girl you were good friends with), then break up with old girl (current relationship) and keep it on the downlow til later.

[(Fallen)]

Feel free to dump her and jump on someone else, but you'll look like a gigantic starfish if you do.  Seriously, no sympathy will be given for you if things go wrong.  I heavily advise it.

Break up with current girlfriend, wait a while, then approach next.  If the new one approaches you quickly or at all after breaking up with old one, then say that you're not ready to go back into dating just yet (some variation of this).  This tells her that you're not the "jump/hump/dump" kind of guy.
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Good idea I will wait about a month after school starts do a non drama break up maybe like "I don't feel that this relationship is going well, I think it would be good for both of use to break up" then wait a bit telling anyone that jumps in that "I'm not ready to jump into another relationship"

[FrozenEye]

Changed it up a bit to better express my feelings and problem.

Did you let the other girl you liked her, aswell?

[(Fallen)]

You could just go ahead and start already flirting with new girl (girl you were good friends with), then break up with old girl (current relationship) and keep it on the downlow til later.

I have been flirting a lot with her.

[(Fallen)]

Did you let the other girl you liked her, aswell?

What?

[Nickelob Ultra]

I have been flirting a lot with her.

Okay, then just go ahead and break up with old, wait two weeks or so, get with new one.

I'm not responsible for anything that happens to you, though, I'm only offering advice.

[FrozenEye]

What?

Well, if the other girl knows your true feelings for her, and that you didnt think that she was interested in you, so thats why you're dating the other girl, she may understand if you break up with the current girl and go and date her.