Author Topic: What is she thinking?  (Read 2769 times)

Yeah, relationship help on BL forums, fail, I know. I'm just really confused and I'm afraid she doesn't want me anywhere near her anymore.
So, homeschool group, like school, is not on during summer, so I stay connected with my friends through Facebook. This girl, I met her last August, but only really got to know her as a friend this past May. I've been chatting with her on Facebook over the summer, all summer, almost daily unless we had something to do offline. For some reason, starting just a couple weeks ago, I said my usual "Hi" to her when I saw we were both logged in. She logged out within 15 seconds. Next time, same story. Over the past 2 weeks or so I've been trying contact her when she's online, just with a simple greeting and she logs out almost instantly after I greet her. I'm really confused, she said I am (perhaps was?) one of her best friends, and now it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. I don't know what's going through her head, and I'm scared she doesn't want to be friends anymore.
Truthfully, I really like her a lot. I see her in real life, it feels like my heart stops and my legs suddenly have no bones. I can't wait to see her again next time. It weirds me out she's being so recessive all of a sudden.

TL;DR, one of my best friends suddenly ceased contact with me

P.S. Posters that say stupid stuff will feel my wrath.
« Last Edit: August 13, 2011, 06:53:13 PM by Vegetarian Zombie »

Give her some time and/or space and see if she talks to you again.

Watch her scream as your cum fills her pusillanimous individual.

2 weeks later, "i only kissed him, now im pregnant!"

Watch her scream as your cum fills her pusillanimous individual.

2 weeks later, "i only kissed him, now im pregnant!"

What the forget..?


Watch her scream as your cum fills her pusillanimous individual.

2 weeks later, "i only kissed him, now im pregnant!"

Dumbass. Go peddle your stuff somewhere else.

well are you a spaz? (dont answer that, you cant be the judge of that yourself)
chicks hate when guys are bugging the stuff out of them all the time. they can like it at first then it becomes very needy and weird.

granted there are many guys that need to learn to not do that stuff.
girls dont want lots of attention, they want a moderate amount of the correct kind of attention.
maybe you were being that needy spaz guy that needed some text affection all the loving time.

this is the folly of young inexperienced people dating, and doing the bulk of it online.

well are you a spaz? (dont answer that, you cant be the judge of that yourself)
chicks hate when guys are bugging the stuff out of them all the time. they can like it at first then it becomes very needy and weird.

granted there are many guys that need to learn to not do that stuff.
girls dont want lots of attention, they want a moderate amount of the correct kind of attention.
maybe you were being that needy spaz guy that needed some text affection all the loving time.

this is the folly of young inexperienced people dating, and doing the bulk of it online.

Actually, she first began chatting with me, not me with her. She was going through some rough patches in her life and she messaged me for help. I don't think I said anything to "relationship-y," I do a fair job of hiding that stuff. We just had normal chats as friends. I sent her a message asking if she was avoiding me last night, and she (ironically) has yet to respond.

Actually, she first began chatting with me, not me with her. She was going through some rough patches in her life and she messaged me for help. I don't think I said anything to "relationship-y," I do a fair job of hiding that stuff. We just had normal chats as friends. I sent her a message asking if she was avoiding me last night, and she (ironically) has yet to respond.
I think I saw this thread on 4chan



she does not want ur snake, end of story

she does not want ur snake, end of story

I don't want her to have my snake, actually. She wants to remain pure, and so do I. I do, however, like her and am confused on what she's thinking.
No more unconstructive stuff for anyone, please.

Give her some time and/or space and see if she talks to you again.
this. i had the same problem once, when she stopped talking to me i stopped talking to her, then in a few weeks we started talking again.

I don't want her to have my snake, actually. She wants to remain pure, and so do I. I do, however, like her and am confused on what she's thinking.
No more unconstructive stuff for anyone, please.
Dudes wanting to remain "pure".

=

Dude that can't get his poon on.

Dudes wanting to remain "pure".

=

Dude that can't get his poon on.

I seriously do, dipstuff. Not to begin a whole "religion" thing, but I am a Christian and don't want to have love with a girl until I am married to her.

this. i had the same problem once, when she stopped talking to me i stopped talking to her, then in a few weeks we started talking again.

Thanks, I guess I'll try that...
Any other GOOD suggestions from anyone? (Go away Hiiro)
« Last Edit: August 13, 2011, 07:12:54 PM by Vegetarian Zombie »