My mom

[RedGajin]

Today I got lucky that I'm at my fathers house, but at my mother's house, every moment I am not doing schoolwork or at school I am doing some other monotonous chore, and not like a go take out the trash kind of thing, something that as an adult she should be doing without the assistance of someone less than half of her age.

I honestly don't see the problem with this. You mother probably doesn't spend all her time while your doing that eating or something. She probably has other things too do. And if she doesn't, it doesn't matter. You simply don't want to do it because you don't want things to be unfair.

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[Nikki]

Your mother will always be over bearing like this probably until high school. Most mothers always have their own sense of reasoning that they're right because they're the parent/adult. I suggest you sit down and talk with your mom, tell her about things you wish to change in your relationship with her, like picking your own clothes or less complaints from her. I can say from experience it can help quite a bit. Tell her you want some more control in your life since you are your own person and her daughter. If she becomes unresponsive to anything you say, you'll probably deal with this until you yourself become older. At least that's how it'll most likely work out. It would be easier if you had another parent/ guardian in your life that would more reliable than your mom. I can only give you the best of luck that she changes her ways and sees in your perspective.

[LizzyRascal]

Stop swearing youre 12.
Also youre 12 what are you doing on the internet

Because I have nothing better to do.

And you can't tell me what I can and can't do.

[Night Fox]

Stop swearing youre 12.
Also youre 12 what are you doing on the internet

holy loving monday stuffs, what kind of dumpass piece of stuff do you even have to loving BE to think there is a god damn such thing as TOO MUCH loving SWEARING

[NotKreation]

what are you doing on the internet youre 3

EVERYTHING.

holy loving monday stuffs, what kind of dumpass piece of stuff do you even have to loving BE to think there is a god damn such thing as TOO MUCH loving SWEARING

snake.

Because I have nothing better to do.

And you can't tell me what I can and can't do.

I'm your mother and you will respect me.

[Thar]

What other methods?

I honestly have no idea. If just sitting down and talking doesn't work, maybe just dressing yourself? Maybe educating your mother about Steam?

If she refuses to listen that's her problem not yours.

Your mother will always be over bearing like this probably until high school. Most mothers always have their own sense of reasoning that they're right because they're the parent/adult. I suggest you sit down and talk with your mom, tell her about things you wish to change in your relationship with her, like picking your own clothes or less complaints from her. I can say from experience it can help quite a bit. Tell her you want some more control in your life since you are your own person and her daughter. If she becomes unresponsive to anything you say, you'll probably deal with this until you yourself become older. At least that's how it'll most likely work out. It would be easier if you had another parent/ guardian in your life that would more reliable than your mom. I can only give you the best of luck that she changes her ways and sees in your perspective.

That pretty much sums up what I'm trying to say.

[Meow03]

Look, your mom is probably just trying to spoil you or something. I'm not sure what kind of person she is but it sound like she just wants to "connect" with you. When my step dad tried to do that stuff to me (not making me wear skirts or picking out sparkally shirts) I completely ignored him for 4 days, he stopped trying to "connect" with me. The only difference between now and when he was doing all that stuff is he doesn't bother me about every little thing

[Aces]

>Educating
>Parents
>Video Games

HAHAHAHA

[RedGajin]

Regarding the first thing on the list on there, your still 12. And I'm going to be blunt here, your mother probably feels like she needs to be more of a 'helicopter parent' of you because you are disabled. And 12 is still pretty young, I'm sure she doesn't want you picking out booty shorts at that age.

Regarding the last one, nothing wrong with it. At all.

[Thar]

forget my parents didn't start letting me pick out my own clothes until I had sense enough not to wear something stuffty on the wrong occasion. Even then I still sucked.

I'm getting better though. Just wait as the years go by Lizzy and you'll get more freedom.

[Stocking]

Seriously though: at least you have a mom and she cares about you. Be thankful for that.

[zeros_bro]

Hmm...

My mom:
-Had her first child at 14
-Got pregnant by four different men, all three of my siblings are half brothers and sisters.
-Has an extremely noticeable boob job(This stuff is SO embarrassing)
-Believes Harry Potter promotes witchcraft
-Is loving handicapped
-Told me "Here's a knife, DO IT!" when I said I wanted to commit Self Delete
-Pretends like all the forgeted up stuff she's done to me has never happened

[Thar]

Holy forget zeros...

[james4115]

Hmm...

My mom:
-Had her first child at 14
-Got pregnant by four different men, all three of my siblings are half brothers and sisters.
-Has an extremely noticeable boob job(This stuff is SO embarrassing)
-Believes Harry Potter promotes witchcraft
-Is loving handicapped
-Told me "Here's a knife, DO IT!" when I said I wanted to commit Self Delete
-Pretends like all the forgeted up stuff she's done to me has never happened

you should probably go to like, a shelter or something because she's probably an unfit mother

[Aces]

Seriously though: at least you have a mom and she cares about you. Be thankful for that.

Stoking cn I b dad?