Unlike you kids, I think about other people. Some people I know have lost their mothers, fathers, brothers, etc. I'm also honoring my friend that died.
Age: 16, you're a kid too.
I think about other people as well. When people die, the people who loved them mourn for a while, and then go on with their lives. Maybe they privately honor them on the day they die. What they don't do 10 years after their relatives die is cry in the streets and demand sympathy.