And I need help on dealing with it.
(Note: The following phrases are NOT exaggerated at all. Seriously.)
My uncle came home a couple nights ago drunk. He was an alcoholic, and the only reason we were letting him stay at our house is to have a family safety net to try to stay off alcohol. Anyway, drunk. My dad said, "You're drunk, aren't you?" (He grew up in NY, he doesn't mince words)
My uncle said laughed and said, "No, I'm not." A slur was obvious in his speech. My dad got upset, this wasn't the first time he did this. My uncle retreated to what used to be my room, he took my room when he moved in. He started getting REALLY pissed. My mom came down the hall at the noise. My dad was yelling about how awful what my uncle was doing. My uncle slammed the door in my mom and dad's face, and he yelled, "YOU ARE ALWAYS TELLING ME WHAT TO loving DO!" My dad got really annoyed now and yelled at him. My uncle repeated. "YOU'RE ALWAYS TELLING ME WHAT TO loving DO!" Me and my brothers were trying to sleep in the next room over. My mom said, "Stop it! My children are right next to you, I don't want them hearing this!" He yelled back, "I DON'T CARE! LET 'EM loving HEAR!"
...you probably get the idea... I don't think I need to go farther.
Anyway... help.