The reason I'm combining these threads is they are similar at their core.
Thread 1: I need to vent
So, this time last year my family was going to Myrtle Beach to watch over my grandfather's house.
My mom was a single mother until I was about 5, so my grand father (whom I affectionately called Papa) was the father-figure in my life. He had to go to Baltimore for a lung check from John's Hopkins University, and they said if they were relying only on the test results they had, they said he could live another 15-20 years (he was in his late 70's and had a lung condition that there really wasn't a cure for) and he was excited to hear that, as you might expect. On the way back to his home in SC (my uncle, one of the two non-alcoholic uncles was driving him) they stopped at a Subway, and got the same thing. That night, in the middle of the night, both my uncle and my grandfather got severe food poisoning. My grandfather collapsed on the floor and was rushed to the hospital. The hospital there... not to overexplain, but it was borderline malpractice. They sent him home, but his throwing up from the food poisoning caused him to aspirate. This he couldn't recover from. He was brought to the hospital again in October, and remained there on oxygen until January 1st.
On January 1st, 2011, at exactly 7am, he died.
We remained at the house to clean it out until April, and now the house sold, so we're back here again.
Tl;dr read it you lazy friend
Thread 2: Conflict
So, some of you remember 'Veggie's Falling in Love' I'm sure. When we got to South Carolina, I was a mess. I was literally crying. I couldn't believe I was back at the place my grandfather died.
The girl in my other thread, Rhianna, she wasn't on my mind at all.
A girl I have known considerably longer, Kayla, was.
I met Kayla through homeschool choir. She sings alto, I sing bass. She's come to me with her problems pretty often.
A couple days ago when we got here, besides how sad I was, I kept thinking, "I need to get on Facebook and get Kayla to help me on this." I couldn't get the thought out of my head.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
I just need some help, again...