Author Topic: I need to vent/Conflict (Two Threads in One-Threadception)  (Read 834 times)

The reason I'm combining these threads is they are similar at their core.
Thread 1: I need to vent
So, this time last year my family was going to Myrtle Beach to watch over my grandfather's house.
My mom was a single mother until I was about 5, so my grand father (whom I affectionately called Papa) was the father-figure in my life. He had to go to Baltimore for a lung check from John's Hopkins University, and they said if they were relying only on the test results they had, they said he could live another 15-20 years (he was in his late 70's and had a lung condition that there really wasn't a cure for) and he was excited to hear that, as you might expect. On the way back to his home in SC (my uncle, one of the two non-alcoholic uncles was driving him) they stopped at a Subway, and got the same thing. That night, in the middle of the night, both my uncle and my grandfather got severe food poisoning. My grandfather collapsed on the floor and was rushed to the hospital. The hospital there... not to overexplain, but it was borderline malpractice. They sent him home, but his throwing up from the food poisoning caused him to aspirate. This he couldn't recover from. He was brought to the hospital again in October, and remained there on oxygen until January 1st.
On January 1st, 2011, at exactly 7am, he died.
We remained at the house to clean it out until April, and now the house sold, so we're back here again.
Tl;dr read it you lazy friend

Thread 2: Conflict
So, some of you remember 'Veggie's Falling in Love' I'm sure. When we got to South Carolina, I was a mess. I was literally crying. I couldn't believe I was back at the place my grandfather died.
The girl in my other thread, Rhianna, she wasn't on my mind at all.
A girl I have known considerably longer, Kayla, was.
I met Kayla through homeschool choir. She sings alto, I sing bass. She's come to me with her problems pretty often.
A couple days ago when we got here, besides how sad I was, I kept thinking, "I need to get on Facebook and get Kayla to help me on this." I couldn't get the thought out of my head.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

I just need some help, again...
« Last Edit: September 23, 2011, 09:46:35 AM by Vegetarian Zombie »

Myrtle Beach is full of Rapist.

But I feel sorry for your lost Grandfather.

Thats really sad. :( I hope you have something good for you coming around the corner.

/Hugs


It means you want someone to talk to.
Just because you like or think you like someone doesn't mean they are the one you want for everything.

You don't go to strip clubs with your girlfriend.

You don't?
No wonder my first girlfriend broke up with me...


And I had my mom to talk to. I told her that I felt like I had to talk to Kayla, because my mom studied some psychology. She said, "It's sort of a familial relationship. People in a family draw strength from each other, and that's what your brain wanted you to do."

For some reason when something serious happens its always chicks you want to talk to, sure you will talk to family and your guy friends but that isn't really important.
The womens help.

Evidently.

And girls seem to come to me for help... Kayla, and another choir friend, Jennifer, have both talked to me about getting over their ex-es.
Kayla because he didn't want a relationship.
Jennifer because he died in a gun accident while they were dating.

So...
I must be part female

I must be part female
Though nobody wants to admit it we are all sensitive and it feels good to talk about things and girls, being more sensitive and understanding seem to be able to help the most.

Though nobody wants to admit it we are all sensitive and it feels good to talk about things and girls, being more sensitive and understanding seem to be able to help the most.

I'm friends with a lot of Kayla's friends on Facebook (because we're all in the same choir) and when I chatted with them, they said Kayla told them she wouldn't have been able to get through the past couple weeks in May (she was having a really tough time) without me there.
Rewarding it was.

Its always good to have the one person you can both talk to/help eachother.
And going slightly back to original topic, if they are your girlfriend its even better. ;)

Evidently.

And girls seem to come to me for help... Kayla, and another choir friend, Jennifer, have both talked to me about getting over their ex-es.
Kayla because he didn't want a relationship.
Jennifer because he died in a gun accident while they were dating.

So...
I must be part female

They feel comfortable and safe around you, and they feel that you're trustworthy enough to tell these things to you.

I predict bitches in your near future.


Anyways, my condolences. Sorry to hear that your grandfather died :c

Hope you feel better soon.

They feel comfortable and safe around you, and they feel that you're trustworthy enough to tell these things to you.

I predict bitches in your near future.


Anyways, my condolences. Sorry to hear that your grandfather died :c

Hope you feel better soon.
I like the sound of that :D
Thanks. I should feel better once I get out of here...

I sing bass.
Finally another male singer.

Except I'm alto-soprano.
*truebutwaitsforhaters*

Finally another male singer.

Except I'm alto-soprano.
*truebutwaitsforhaters*

You're 11, you'll get there.